September 23, 2009
July 8, 2009
Torrid Model Search
This is big. Have you ever dreamed of being a model?
Speaking as someone who won a Clarol – Big Beautiful Woman
makeover contest and was featured in Big Beautiful Woman magazine, several years ago. There is no greater feeling than having your beauty recognized. I tried modeling for a while after my contest win. It is hard work but worth it.
Please click on the banner above and let us know when you are chosen to model for Torrid. Good luck and remember love yourself and dream. Deb.
June 17, 2009
I Love This Dress
I know, technically it is considered lounge ware, but I consider it a dress . I am a large stay at home kinda’ lady and this dress makes me feel dressed up even when I am just sitting in front of the computer.
Back when I was a kid, my grandma would probably have called it a house dress. Oh well times and terms change.
I wear this dress in the house, in the garden, for a quick trip to the store and could wear it on the beach. It is comfortable and oh so easy to wear.
In fact I like this dress so much I am about to buy this one.

I love the color. Makes me feel like I am wearing sunshine and checkout the cute embellished sandals.
Bye for now and remember just love yourself and dream.
May 17, 2009
The Maxie Dress
I love the Maxie Dress but then I always have. Alright guys I’m going to
date myself here but when the Maxie came out in the 70’s I said yes,
designers are finely getting it! I no longer have to struggle with a
dress that is too short.
No longer did I have to worry that I would embarrass myself when I
bent over. I could bend and stoop in comfort.
The Maxie is back for summer of 2009, hurray! Long dresses catch
those cool summer breezes. Forget stockings and bare your legs with
no guilt. Yes ladies the Maxie Dress is back, enjoy.
September 25, 2008
The Trouble With Some Plus Size Ladies
Ok, so you’re a big lady…make the best of it.
I just got home from having breakfast at a local restaurant. I admit to being a people watcher. There was a young lady at the breakfast buffet and I can’t get her out of my head.
She was blond and could have been pretty, I never really took a good look at her face because I was so busy looking at what she was wearing.
Yes ladies we are large but be proud! Do not wear a pink Winnie the Pooh tee shirt that looks like it has been slept in. Make sure that if your pants aren’t Capri’s they cover your ankles. A pony tail is a great classic hair style but not a rubber band. (A rubber band is a sure path to split ends.)
Alright I am a fair person, she could have had a reason for looking so bad, heck maybe something happened and she did sleep in her shirt. The point I am trying to get at is that I see this sort of thing every day, and I am tired of it.
A large lady has as much right as a smaller one to look good. Be proud of who you are.
- Wear clothes that fit.
- Make sure those clothes are clean and free of wrinkles.
- Don’t fall back on black as your basic color. (Ladies black doesn’t hide the fat it calls attention to it.)
- If you wear sandals give yourself a pedicure.
- Speaking of shoes make sure they fit. (Slip ons are great but make sure your heel dosen’t hang off of the back of the foot bed.)
All right you get the idea, enough of my ranting. I want to see more beautiful, big ladies out there from now on. Don’t make me get mad again. Oh and Remember Love Yourself and Dream, Deb.
September 4, 2008
August 10, 2008
Dewy Lips
Dewy Lips
The Perfect Pout
Full, luscious lips are all-the-rage on red carpets and runways this season. It all begins with a healthy pout.
Lips are skin, remember. They require moisture, nourishment and exfoliation just like the rest of your face. In fact, even more so. Lips are protected by a mere three to five layers of skin cells compare to the 15 on the rest of your body. A barrier is essential, but you’ll have to be choosey. Lipsticks, balms and glosses that are petroleum-based tend to be addictive and require more and more applications to remain effective. Instead, look for products that contain essential oils, vitamins and collagen enhancers.
Tips to achieve luscious lips:
1. If you have lines above your lips, use a lipliner pencil before lipstick. That will keep your lipstick from bleeding.
2. Only use gloss on the lower lip and press lips together.
3. For longer lasting lip color, fill the lip in with pencil and add lipstick sparingly.
4. Avoid frosted lipsticks, which tend to highlight wrinkles.
5. To avoid lipstick on the teeth: After lipstick has been applied, stick your index finger in your mouth, close your lips around it and pull your finger out. Any lipstick which was inside your lips will now have been transferred to your finger.
6. Look for products that do double-duty as sun protectors.
If you’re ready to have the perfect pout you’ll find the latest innovations in cosmetics on the Spa at Home Beauty website from Soft Surroundings.

July 31, 2008
Leggings – For the Pear Shaped Woman
I was asked recently, if the pear shaped woman should wear leggings? The answer is a great big yes. Leggings are great for the pear shape, the triangle the hourglass. Any woman who has an ample bottom should consider leggings.
The legging is great because it gives you a smooth look. Choose a darker color. Oh heck with leggings you can even get away with a bright color, the trick is your top.
You want the top you wear to be:
- A tunic
- A big shirt
- A sweater with some length to it
- A short, flirty trapeze dress
The idea is to make your top stand out. Your top should be long enough to cover your bottom. With the close to your body fit of a legging and a happy, hip hiding top your bottom can’t help but look slimmer.
Above are some examples of tops to go with your leggings. See how the top stands out not the bottom? Now go find your perfect pair of leggings and top and you will look nothing short of fabulous.
July 28, 2008
Saving Money with Coupons – Internet Style
Are you a coupon clipper?
Well technically on the internet you don’t clip the coupon, but just like the paper version, internet coupons can save you a bunch.
Internet coupons are different than other text or banner ads you might see in two ways:
- They have an experation date.
- They have a code you need to enter at check out. ( HINT ) If you see a coupon you like, write the code down so that you can enter it when you see something you love.
An internet coupon can be in banner form or text.
Another thing to note is that some coupons specify – Sale not valid on clearance or already discounted items. While others are good on all purchases.
A coupon that is good for 20% off in addition to any existing sale prices is a great find. A coupon good for 40% off of regular price merchandise is not so bad either.
Start being an internet coupon clipper. Your wallet will thank you.
Remember Just Love Yourself and Dream, Deb.
July 26, 2008
Check it Out – Best Hairstyles for Your Face Shape
I just ran across a post that I wanted to share with you. It is all about how to make sure that the hair style you are thinking about, is really the right one for you.
You know how it is, you go get a new cut and walk out of the shop weak in the knees because of what you have just done. This post tells you how to figure out the shape of your face and gives you examples of good and bad styles for your shape.
Best Hairstyles for Your Face Shape
The Secret to Finding Your Perfect Cut
By Rachel Fischer Spalding, Special to LifeScript





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